Feline Behaviorist Pam Johnson-Bennett is the author of a number of award-winning and critically acclaimed books, including Think Like a Cat and Psycho Kitty. The innovative methods described in all her books are based on Pam's unique way of training by actually understanding the way a cat thinks. She makes numerous television appearances including CNN, Fox News Channel, and National Geographic specials, as well as being a popular guest on many nationally syndicated radio programs. She is now considered to be one of the leading experts on feline behavior.

Q: When I try to brush my cat, she attacks the brush. I don't know if she's playing or annoyed. She has a problem with hairballs and I think brushing her will help. Do you have any suggestions on how I can brush her without the aggressive behavior?

A: Brushing can be a wonderful bonding experience between cat and owner. Start by making sure you're using the correct brush, depending upon the length of your cat's coat. For shorthaired cats you can use a gentle slicker brush or a natural bristle brush. For a longhaired cat you'll need a natural bristle brush plus a variety of wide-, medium-, and fine-toothed combs.

Start by brushing your cat just a few strokes at a time to get her used to the feeling. Don't try to do her entire body in one session. Brush areas where she enjoys, such as the back of the head, right behind the ears. Offer her a treat or engage in a play session afterward so she's left with the impression that brushing leads to fun things. Gradually work up to increasing the number of strokes and be careful of how you brush various parts of her body. Go gently over the bony parts. If you're unsure of how hard to brush, use the brush on the inner part of your forearm as a gauge.

Some cats are very sensitive about having certain areas brushed, so when you do a stroke in a spot and the cat reacts negatively, go immediately back to a favorite spot such as the back of the head. Always end the brushing session before the cat reaches her tolerance limit. End on a positive note and each time will get easier and easier.